1. Stop calling him “sweet names” like dearie, sweetheart, honey, love etc: I know some girls love calling sweet names but please, control it. Do not give the guy false hope. Let friends be friends NOT lovers. Unless you want to switch over, then you open up.
2. Stop getting jealous when you see him with other girls: You do not want to marry him, he has not ask you out or even engage you. Yet you get jealous when he is making headway, relationships wise. Stop that! Even friends have limits.
3. Stop discussing your past relationships with him: It has been proven that when you discuss your past relationship with him, it communicate something different to his mind.
4. Stop monitoring his movement: Some girls go extra length to monitor every step he takes. They always call and ask where are you? What are you doing? Have you eaten? Etc. Stop this if you don't want intimacy with him. Do not get me wrong, you can show concern by asking how is he fairing, not constant call, text and visit.
5. Stop “missing” him always: Stop sending text every morning, day, evening and night saying ‘I miss you’ constantly. That stirs up questions as much as it does hormones. It is risky.
I hope you learn something
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