INTRODUCTION
Every woman want to feel connected that is the reason they strive to make sure that their relationship is on solid ground. By doing this they tend to make some incredible statements which often time is misunderstood by men.
WHAT PROMPTED ME WRITING THIS ARTICLE?
One of the ingredients for successful relationship and marriage is right communication and compatibility. When communication is misunderstood, it often result to problem. In my little study and interpersonal relationship with some folks, I found out that most of them lack this ingredients "right communication and compatibility". Lack of this lead to misunderstanding of feelings and words.
AREAS TO ADDRESS
In this article, we shall address five statement made by ladies, which is often misunderstood by men:
It is up to you
I don't want to talk right now
Do you have to do this now?
Do not worry about it
Are you listening?
STATEMENT ONE: It is up to you.
This statement doesn't mean you have freedom to choose. Often time, it is a test on your decision power in making the right choice which they know but will not tell you because they believe you should know the best decision to make. This statement is often made when she gives you an idea and you are not buying it or you want to do something she’s not okay with. You must be careful, because making the wrong choice or decision will usually result in "It is okay". Note; When she says "it is okay", it is never okay. She probably need some time to figure things out.
STATEMENT TWO: I don't want to talk right now.
When she use this statement, she don't really mean it. She expect you to know what that something is wrong and wants you to pay attention to her. Thus; she's checking to see if you care about her present mood. When you persist, you will find out that the same lady who says “I don’t want to talk right now", will start talking non stop.
STATEMENT THREE: Do you have to do this now?
It is not a question. When this statement is use, the man will be like "what I have done now"?. It is not matter what you have done, it means stop doing what you are doing. A lot of women use this word to end an argument when they don’t want to talk about it anymore.
STATEMENT FOUR: Do not worry about it.
When she make this statement, she really do not mean it. If you are not a mind reader and you don’t understand her, you may never guess what she is talking about. Most often, ladies use this statement when they tell you to do something more than once and she is now going to do it herself. If she does it herself, let her be because any further inquiries from you might result to loud voice.
STATMENT FIVE: Are you listening?
Most time, this signifies that you were not listening. There is no way to recover from this. Women love attention, you them the required attention they deserve.
Thanks for reading. You can follow on;
Leave a comment, I value you.
You're so on point, judging from my experience
ReplyDeleteI Thanks sir
Delete